• Re: BUNI, MALAMI MOVE TO BLOCK CONVENTION, GOVS RISE AGAINST INTERIM PARTY CHAIR

    By Yusuf Ali

    These days, so many people are saying so many things; indulging mostly in sponsored attacks, and fictitious lies in the pages of Newspapers on the activities of Governor Buni led CECPC, and as spokespersons, we make the deliberate choice of staying out of the most part because it is not worth replying.

  • Re: Pre-disconnection Notice: GLO, MTN RESOLVE INTERCONNECT DEBT DISPUTE

    By Celestine Okafor (Editor-in-Chief)

    The Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC) has announced that the interconnect debt dispute between MTN Nigeria Communications Plc. (MTN) and Globacom Limited (Globacom) has been amicably resolved.

  • READ THE BOOK 'I KNOW WHY THE CAGED BIRD SINGS'

    By Maya Angelou

    "I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings," Maya Angelou's powerful memoir, is a treasure trove of lessons about resilience, hope, and the enduring power of the human spirit.

  • READ THIS BOOK 'THINK FASTER, TALK SMARTER'

    By Matt Abraham

    Shaky voice. Sweaty palms. Red face. Memory loss. Stuttering.

    If you have experienced at least one of these symptoms when having to give a spur-of-the-moment answer or speech, this book is for you. In this book, Matt Abrahams provides tangible, actionable skills to help even the most anxious of speakers “Think Faster” and “Talk Smarter” when speaking spontaneously. Abrahams provides science-based strategies for managing anxiety, responding to the mood of the room, and making content concise, relevant, compelling, and memorable. Here are some masterclass takeaways from the book:

  • READ THIS BOOK 'WHY WON'T YOU APOLOGIZE?'

    By Harriet Lerner

    Lessons From "Why Won't You Apologize?"

    1. The Power of "I'm Sorry": Lerner explores the immense emotional weight of a genuine apology and its role in VALIDATING your hurt, fostering hope, igniting healing, and eventually, restoring trust. Offering and receiving apologies are crucial for healing and maintaining healthy relationships.

    2. Beyond "I'm Sorry": The book goes beyond expecting a simple apology and delves into these deeper needs that arise after betrayal. It reveals that an apology is an acknowledgement of responsibility and the impact of our actions on others. It is also one sure way to show remorse and the desire to repair the damage.

    3. The "Non-Apologizer": Lerner explores the psychology behind individuals who resist apologizing, including factors like shame, denial, or difficulty facing their own wrongdoing. This knowledge helps you detach from their behavior and manage expectations, focusing on your own healing journey.

    4. The Over-Apologizer: Excessive apologies can also be problematic. The book examines those who apologize excessively, often due to low self-esteem or fear of abandonment. Recognizing this dynamic can help you avoid getting caught in unhealthy codependency patterns.

    5. Healing Without an Apology: While an apology is ideal, focusing solely on its absence can hinder your healing. The book offers strategies for healing even if you don't receive one, such as self-compassion, setting boundaries, and reclaiming your narrative by focusing on your strength and resilience.

    6. Anger is your friend: Your anger is not your enemy. It signals a violation, fuels change, and motivates you to protect yourself. Lerner normalizes and validates anger as a natural response to betrayal, and offers healthy ways to express and manage it constructively instead of allowing it to consume you.

    7. Forgiveness is a Personal Choice: Forgiveness isn't about condoning the act; it's about self-care. Focus on letting go of anger and resentment for your own peace of mind, not theirs. The book challenges the societal pressure to forgive automatically. You decide what forgiveness means and looks like for you.

    8. Grieving the Loss: Allow yourself to feel the emotions. Betrayal often involves a loss of trust, safety, or the relationship itself. Acknowledging and grieving this loss is crucial for processing your emotions and moving forward.

    9. The Power of Connection: Don't heal alone. Reconnect with supportive loved ones, seek therapy, or join support groups. Sharing your experience and receiving understanding can be invaluable for your emotional well-being.

    10. Rewriting Your Story: The power lies in your narrative. Lerner encourages you to rewrite the narrative of betrayal on your own terms, focusing on your strength and resilience. While you do, remember that the experience doesn't define you, but empowers you to become a more authentic and resilient version of yourself. NNL.

  • READ THIS BOOK, '12 LAWS OF THE JUNGLE'

    By Daniel Cleland and Matthew Cartagena

    This great book will Unleash Your Entrepreneurial Prowess. While it might use a provocative title, its lessons offer valuable insights for entrepreneurs navigating the competitive landscape.

    Here are 10 key takeaways to unlock your inner entrepreneurial beast:

    1. Embrace the Zero-Revenue Tightrope: Don't fear the initial lack of income. Focus on building your product/service, validating market needs, and establishing a foundation before chasing revenue.

    2. Seek High-Profile Connections: Cultivate relationships with successful entrepreneurs and mentors. Their experience and guidance can be invaluable in navigating unforeseen challenges.

    3. Disrupt the Norm: Don't be afraid to challenge conventional wisdom and embrace unorthodox tactics. Find innovative solutions to problems and differentiate yourself from the pack.

    4. Beware the Betrayal Bite: Anticipate potential betrayals and have backup plans in place. Protect your intellectual property and choose your partners wisely.

    5. Channel Your Inner Jungle Cat: Develop resilience and adaptability. Learn from failures, pivot when necessary, and stay agile in the face of uncertainty.

    6. Master the Art of the "Pre-Sell": Don't wait for launch. Generate pre-launch buzz and interest to build momentum and early customer adoption.

    7. Leverage the Power of Storytelling: Craft compelling narratives that connect with your audience on an emotional level. Sell the vision, not just the product.

    8. Become a Master of Persuasion: Develop your communication skills and learn to influence others. Pitch your ideas with passion, clarity, and data-driven evidence.

    9. Embrace the "Minimum Viable Hustle": Don't get bogged down in perfection. Get your product/service out there quickly and gather feedback to iterate and improve.

    10. Celebrate the Thrill of the Hunt: Find joy in the entrepreneurial journey itself. Embrace the challenges and celebrate the wins, big and small. NNL.

  • Reading Culture: GROUP PARTNERS NICO TO LAUNCH CULTURAL STORY BOOK SERIES FOR SCHOOLS

    By Cecilia Ogezi

    AfriGrowth Foundation in partnership with the National Institute for Cultural Orientation (NICO) has launched the first in the series of "Tales On the Diverse Shades Of Culture", a cultural storybook series in Abuja.

  • REC Appointment: OPPOSITION SHOULD PROVE UMOREN IS A CARD-CARRYING MEMBER OF APC, SAYS AKPABIO'S AIDE, HON EYIBOH

    A leader of the All Progressives Congress [APC] in Eket Senatorial District of Akwa-Ibom State and spokesperson to the Senate President, Hon Eseme Eyiboh, has shifted the onus to the opposition Peoples Democratic Party [PDP] to prove that Sir Etekamba Umoren is a card-carrying member of the APC.

  • REFLECTIONS ON ADESINA'S WORK WITH BUHARI

    By Azu Ishiekwene

    I knew Femi Adesina when he was “Daddy Tobi.” He still is, of course. But back in the day when we were neighbours in “Olowora Inside”, a Lagos suburb, when you could call to a neighbour from your frontage, often by using the name of their first child, that was how we called Femi: Daddy Tobi.

  • REGGAE MAESTRO, BUNNY WAILERS, DIES AT 73

     

    By Jahman Ekundayo (Entertainment Reporter)

    The reggae music world is currently in deep mourning, following the death of the legendary Jamaican singer, Bunny Wailer, who founded the Wailers with two other Jamaican reggae legends, Bob Marley and Peter Tosh.

  • REINVENTING, RESTRUCTURING, RENOVATING PANEL-BEATING NIGERIA OR WHAT? (2)

    By Bolanle Bolawole

    Last week, we ran the first part of Prof. Banji Akintoye’s treatise on Nigeria, its history, problems, prospects and, well, final solution to the Nigerian quagmire; hopefully, not in the mould of Adolf Hitler’s final solution to the Jewish question! None of the over 360 Nigerian ethnic nationalities equates to the Jews, in my reckoning, and the resolution of the national question in Nigeria does not necessarily have to proceed in the same fashion as it did in Hitler’s Germany. Prof. Akintoye’s recommendations, which he wants President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and the Nigerian ruling class to consider with dispatch, are set out here today. It is titled:NIGERIA NEEDS NOW THE COURAGE TO DISSOLVE PEACEFULLY - PART TWO.

  • Religion: THE WILD CARD IN POLITICS

    By Jude Ogechi Eze

    No counter argument was more baseless on the road to 2023 general elections than the "religion shouldn't matter" shenanigans by APC and Tinubu supporters.

  • REMAIN COMMITTED TO NATION BUILDING, GOV KEFAS AGBU TELLS CORPS MEMBERS IN TARABA

    By Nahum Sule (Taraba State Correspondent, in Jalingo)

    The Taraba State Governor, Dr Agbu Kefas, at the weekend, urged Corps members under the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) currently under going orientation in the State to show high sense of responsibility during the course of their service year.

  • Remarriage: COPING WITH ABUSED, DAMAGED SPOUSES

    By Michael West

    The most difficult and delicate person to marry is a person who came out of an abused, emotionally damaged and mentally tortured marriage. It is akin to a wounded lioness that survived a hunter's snare. Any animal that dares to intrude on her space or tries to hurt her cubs will not live to tell the story. That is how delicate it is to marry a deeply hurt soul.

  • Removal of Party Exco: THIS ATTACK ON DEMOCRACY WILL NOT STAND...ADC

    By Joseph Iyalla (Politics Reporter)

    Following the removal of Senator David Mark led National Executive Committee by the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) based on the judgement of the Appeal Court, the opposition African Democratic Congress (ADC) has vowed to resist what it described as attempts to destroy democracy in Nigeria.

  • Repair Work: FG SHUTS LAGOS THIRD MAINLAND BRIDGE FROM FRIDAY

    Rehabilitation work is expected to begin in earnest, as the federal government has announced a partial closure of the lagos Third Mainland Bridge from midnight on Friday.

  • REPS DEPUTY SPEAKER, KALU, HARPS ON NEED FOR GOOD GOVERNANCE

    By Celestine Okafor (Editor-in-chief)

    Nigeria's House of Representatives must ensure that all its legislative interventions are tailored towards meeting the needs of Nigerians through good governance, the Deputy Speaker, Rt. Hon. Benjamin Okezie Kalu has said.

  • REPS DEPUTY SPEAKER, KALU, UNDER FIRE OVER LAW SCHOOL- NYSC OVERLAP

    * Petitioner Writes Legal Practitioner's Disciplinary Committee Over Acts of Law Breaches

    By Our Reporter

    A fresh legal controversy has erupted around the Deputy Speaker of the House of Representatives, Hon. Benjamin Okezie Kalu, following a petition challenging the legality of his enrolment as a legal practitioner and the authenticity of his participation in the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC).

    According to a report by thenigerialawyer.com, a former First Vice President of the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA), Mr. John Aikpokpo-Martins, has formally petitioned the Legal Practitioners’ Disciplinary Committee (LPDC), alleging what he described as “fraudulent enrolment” on the Roll of Legal Practitioners maintained at the Supreme Court of Nigeria.

    At the centre of the petition is an alleged overlap between Kalu’s NYSC service year and his attendance at the Nigerian Law School, Enugu Campus.

    The petitioner contends that Kalu was mobilised for NYSC from March 9, 2010 to March 8, 2011, while simultaneously attending the Nigerian Law School between April 23, 2010 and July 1, 2011.

    Aikpokpo-Martins argues that such dual participation would contravene Section 2(3) of the NYSC Act, which mandates a continuous one-year national service. He maintains that it is “statutorily impossible” for a corps member to lawfully undertake full-time academic training during the subsistence of the service year.

    The petition further references what is described as a strict policy of the Nigerian Law School and the Council of Legal Education prohibiting students from serving in the NYSC during their period of study.

    In an affidavit deposed before the LPDC, the petitioner alleges that Kalu—who reportedly enrolled at the Law School under the name Benjamin Okezie Osisiogu before subsequent changes of name—made a formal declaration on April 23, 2010, affirming that he was not and would not engage in employment or serve in the NYSC during his course of study.

    However, documentary evidence attached to the petition, including NYSC Certificate of National Service No. A001773067 allegedly issued on March 8, 2011, is said to indicate continuous participation in the scheme within the same timeframe.

    The petitioner asserts that this raises fundamental questions as to whether the Deputy Speaker satisfied the mandatory 70 percent attendance requirement at the Nigerian Law School—a prerequisite for certification by the Council of Legal Education and subsequent Call to Bar.

    Kalu was called to the Nigerian Bar on September 6, 2011, and enrolled at the Supreme Court with enrolment number SCN/078630.

    The petition invokes several provisions of the NYSC Act, including Sections 13(1)(b), 13(3), and 13(4), which prescribe penalties for failure to serve continuously, aiding contraventions, or making false statements in connection with the scheme.

    Under Section 11(1)(c) of the Legal Practitioners Act, the LPDC is empowered to discipline any legal practitioner found guilty of infamous conduct in a professional respect.

    Aikpokpo-Martins has also written to the Director-General of the NYSC, urging the withdrawal of the alleged Certificate of National Service and calling for prosecution if breaches are established.

    He further disclosed plans to apply for subpoenas compelling the production of official records from both the NYSC and the Nigerian Law School, including call-up letters, attendance registers, allowance payment records, and discharge documentation.

    The petitioner insists that the matter transcends politics and strikes at the core of professional ethics and institutional integrity.

    “The exalted position he presently occupies must showcase the highest standards of integrity, transparency and adherence to the law,” he stated.

    Senior lawyers who spoke on the development emphasised that the LPDC possesses jurisdiction to investigate allegations of professional misconduct, including fraudulent enrolment, where properly substantiated. However, they cautioned that the claims remain allegations pending formal inquiry and evidentiary scrutiny.

    As of press time, there has been no official response from Hon. Kalu regarding the petitions. Neither the NYSC nor the LPDC has publicly confirmed whether investigations have commenced.

    The unfolding controversy places renewed focus on statutory compliance, professional standards, and the expectations of integrity for holders of high public office. (source: thenigerialawyer.com). NNL.

  • REPS MEMBER WINS APC NATIONAL ASSEMBLY TICKET FOR THE 5TH TIME IN NIGER STATE

    • * Another Reps Member Escapes Ambush, Assassination After Aborted Primaries

    By Princess Simon (Bureau Chief North Central, in Minna)

    A serving member of the House of Representatives representing Kontagora, Wushishi, Mashegu and Mariga federal constituency (zone C), Hon. Abdullahi Idris Garba (Mai-solar) has emerged the APC candidate for the 2023 general elections.

  • Research Study: A NEW GENERATION OF HUMANITY ARRIVES THE WORLD IN 2025. WHO ARE THEY?

    * Researchers Finger 'Generation Gamma' (Gen G) as Coming Next From Year 2040 - 2054

    By Our Reporter

    With the arrival of the new year, a new generation is officially on the horizon: They are called Generation Beta, Gen Beta for short.

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