By Dayan Masinde
When you two were younger, you two argued alot, not because you two did not love each other but because you were not mature enough. With growth comes ease of handling issues
Marriage is not a gender battle but a beautiful union between a man and a woman, both created in the image of God with unique strengths
Almost every married couple considered quiting or doubted whether they will last at some point when overwhelmed by challenges. That season comes to wake the both of you up and test how serious you are about the marriage. If you manage that season well, you will be a stronger and better couple
If you two started your marriage on a shaky foundation or you made blunders at the beginning when you started, it doesn't mean that your union is doomed to fail. A couple can take control of their marriage mid-way and steer it to the right direction
You can search any where in the world but you will never find someone who knows you, puts up with you, and has proven to be dependable like the one you have invested years in each other. For that, don't take each for granted
Love has to transcend sagging boobs, baldness, grew hairs, fat, stretchmarks, physical challenges and sex because as you grow older; you will realize that it was actually the person inside the body of your spouse that you fell in love with
The friends that you made a priority as you ignored your spouse, they will easily leave but your spouse will always be there. Have your priorities right
Your parents actually don't fully know your spouse, so their opinion should not be the absolute guide. You know each other best. This is your home, not theirs
The memories, legacy, wisdom and assurance of love you transfer to your children are the greatest inheritance
It makes no point to work so hard to make money for your family and in the end, lose your family. As you work, be smart and make time to enjoy quality time with your spouse and children
How sweet, peaceful, relaxed and enjoyable your old retirement years will be; will depend on how you treat each other when you are younger
There is no challenge you two cannot overcome if you work together, and put down your ego and excuses
If you elevate your spouse above God that your spouse ruins your relationship with God, then your marriage will be shaken. God doesn't share His glory
Your spouse came into your life for an assignment. To mould you, to make you better, to give you a helping hand and support you to fulfill your purpose. Do not fight that assignment
As you age and get closer to death, the weight of responsibility in marriage will dawn on you. You will be more conscious that you will have to give an account to God how you treated the spouse God gave you all these years. You will remember how you two met, the promises you made to esch other's family, the vows you made and if you lived by them. May it be that you were a good steward of the family. NNL.
