LESSONS FROM THIS BOOK 'KEEP IT SHUT'

(What To Say; How To Say It; And When To Say Nothing At All)

By Karen Ehman

1. Words have power: Recognize the impact your words can have on yourself and others, both positive and negative.

2. Silence is golden: Learn to be comfortable with silence, allowing space for reflection and thoughtful responses.

3. Consider before speaking: Pause before responding, allowing yourself time to process emotions and choose the right words.

4. Guard your tongue: Control your impulsive reactions and avoid speaking out of anger or negativity.

5. Listen actively: Pay close attention to what others are saying, both verbally and nonverbally.

6. Ask clarifying questions: Ensure you understand the other person's perspective before responding.

7. Speak with kindness and respect: Treat others with dignity, even when you disagree.

8. Offer constructive criticism: When necessary, focus on specific actions and offer suggestions for improvement.

9. Avoid gossip and negativity: Don't participate in spreading rumors or engaging in hurtful conversations.

10. Challenge negativity: Gently confront gossip and encourage others to consider the impact of their words.

11. Forgive and move on: Forgive those who have wronged you and let go of negativity to protect your own well-being.

12. Guard your heart: Be mindful of the thoughts and information you allow into your mind and heart.

13. Seek God's guidance: Rely on your faith for wisdom and strength when faced with difficult situations.

14. Practice self-care: Prioritize your physical and emotional well-being to manage stress and make wise decisions.

15. Humility is key: Recognize that you don't always have the answer, and be open to learning and growing.

Remember: These are just some of the key takeaways from "Keep It Shut." Each lesson offers valuable insights and practical strategies for improving your communication skills, fostering healthy relationships, and living a more mindful life. NNL.

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• 'Don't Encourage Failure', PDP Advises Vice President Shettima

By David Okpashi (Nasarawa State Correspondent, in Lafia)

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